Whether
you’ve always dreamed of running a marathon, long to start your own business or
aspire to see your name in lights, we all have ambitions and goals in life.
However, often we don’t feel good enough, lucky enough or talented enough to
get what we want, so too often our dreams go unrealised. To make sure your
aspirations don’t remain a distant dream, check out these 10 steps for
achieving your goals.
How to achieve your goals, step 1:
Prioritise
How to achieve your goals, step 1:
Prioritise
Most
of us have hundreds of things on our wishlist of things we want to do, from
losing our muffin top to buying our dream home. However, if you want to
effectively tackle an important goal, it is important not to overload yourself
and to go after one ambition at a time, starting with the goal most important to
your overall happiness. Also, while it is good to aim high, it is also
important to choose a goal that is attainable and which fits with your talents,
lifestyle and who you are as a person – don’t go after a goal just because it
is something you feel you should do.
How to achieve your goals, step 2:
Get specific
How to achieve your goals, step 2:
Get specific
We
often make broad declarations about what we want out of life, such as “I wish I
was fitter”, “I’d love to have more money” or “I want to make a difference to
the world”. However, these vague, intangible goals are hardly ever accomplished
as, in order to achieve your goals, you need to be specific about what exactly
it is you want; how do you want to make more money? What could you do
to make a difference? Set specific and measurable goals such as “I want to
start exercising three times a week” or “I want to become the manager of my
company” so that you have something to aim for and can measure your progress.
How to achieve your goals, step 3:
Research your goal
How to achieve your goals, step 3:
Research your goal
In
order to get where you want in life, you need to understand exactly how you can
get there, and the best way to do this is to ask those who know. Whatever your
ambition, there is bound to be someone out there who has already achieved it,
and their advice and experience could prove invaluable. Browse the internet,
take a course, read books on the subject and get in contact with people who
have achieved your goal. By getting a clear of understanding of how others have
achieved the same ambition, you will be well equipped to follow in their
footsteps.
How to achieve your goals, step 4:
Break it down
How to achieve your goals, step 4:
Break it down
When
you first look at your goal it may seem slightly overwhelming. How on earth are
you ever going to score your dream job/run a marathon/write that novel?
However, by breaking your overall ambition down into ‘mini goals’ (such as
completing a 5K race or writing 200 words a day) you will not only make your
goal seem more achievable but you will give yourself specific things to aim for
along the way. Write down your plan of action – what you want to achieve and
how you can get there, step by step. Then tick off each ‘mini goal’ as you
achieve it to give yourself a visual representation of your progress.
How to achieve your goals, step 5:
Take action
How to achieve your goals, step 5:
Take action
Often
the reason we don’t achieve our goals is because we keep putting them off until
a “better time” in the future. However, this better time may never come, and in
actual fact the best time to start chasing your dreams is right now. Ask
yourself what you can do this week to make your dream happen. What can you do
right now? Also, evaluate what it is that is stopping you from going after your
goal (such as lack of time or financial restraints) and see how you can work
around these things. Don’t leave your goal as a distant dream; take action and
start pursuing it right now.
How to achieve your goals, step 6:
Believe in yourself
How to achieve your goals, step 6:
Believe in yourself
It
may sound cheesy, but to achieve your goals in life you have to get in the
right frame of mind, and that means believing you can do it. Confidence in
yourself and your abilities can get your far, and setting out with a positive
mind set is important. However, while many of us start out brimming with
confidence, setbacks and perceived failures can soon diminish this, so it is
important to take measures to stay motivated. Reward yourself and take pride in
every little achievement, and remember that everyone who has achieved anything
difficult has had little setbacks from time to time, so don’t let this take
away from your successes.
How to achieve your goals, step 7:
Share your dream
How to achieve your goals, step 7:
Share your dream
To
help boost your motivation and stay on track towards your goal, it can help to
share your ambitions and tell people about your goal. The more people you tell
the more committed to the goal you will be, and the more people you will have
to help you. Not only can friends and family offer you support when you need it,
but they may be able to keep their eyes and ears open for opportunities and
people who can help you to achieve your goal. Also, if you know someone else
who is striving for the same goal, sharing your experiences and offering each
other support is an even better way to boost your motivation.
How to achieve your goals, step 8:
Clear your schedule
How to achieve your goals, step 8:
Clear your schedule
It
can be easy to get so caught up in day-to-day life that there’s no time to
strive for anything out of the ordinary. However, if you want something enough,
it is important to make time for it. We often spend far too much time on things
that aren’t that important to us or that don’t really need doing, but by
cutting back on these times you will give yourself more time to go after your
goal. Write down all the things currently clogging up your schedule and then
identify those things you can cut back on. You can also maximize your time by
getting up earlier or using your lunch hours more effectively.
How to achieve your goals, step 9:
Be flexible
How to achieve your goals, step 9:
Be flexible
Sometimes,
no matter how much background research you do, how many hours you put in and
how meticulously you plot your route to success, things just don’t quite go to
plan. However, the key to achieving your goals is to be flexible and ready to
come up with a plan B (or C or D) when this happens. Rather than focusing
fixatedly on minor setbacks in your plan, try to formulate several backup plans
to help you bounce back from any setback and stay on track towards your
ultimate goal.
How to achieve your goals, step 10:
Remind yourself why you want it
How to achieve your goals, step 10:
Remind yourself why you want it
While
rewarding your progress and striving towards mini goals is a great way to stay
motivated towards your overall dream, if you still find yourself feeling
disillusioned from time to time it is important to remind yourself why you want
to achieve this goal. Picture yourself having achieved this goal already and
consider what it means to you. What will you gain from achieving this goal? How
will it make you feel? If you do find along the way that you have forgotten why
you want your goal at all, then perhaps this is a good time to reassess your
goals and strive for a new ambition.
-source: msn.com.ph
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